NOT ENOUGH LOVE

Not enough love

THERE ARE TWO MAIN REASON ENOUGH FOR FAILURE TO PARENT - CHILD LOVES HIS SON .
First , parents do not love themselves . Parents with low self-esteem had great difficulty in giving more love to their children than they feel for themselves .
The second reason , is because they often have a misconception that their children there to meet their expectations . One of the main causes of conflict between parent and child is feeling or perception of parents that children failed to " fulfill the measure " which would be expected to parents about what they are or what they should do .
Many parents regard their children as capital , as a form of property rights . They feel that their children behave properly only if they do and say what is in accordance with their wishes .
If the child's behavior different from the expectations of parents , mother or father respond to criticism without planning to do so , they attract love and approval from their child who stepped on the child's emotional lifeline .
Children feel unloved and laid the foundation for later personality problems in later life . All negative or antisocial behaviors are cries for help , an attempt to escape from guilt , anger and resentment that began with criticism in the early days of his life .

Do the important things

What we need to do is concentrate on the things that are most important.

The hard part is that these are usually the things that are not urgent.

Yet they are things that will make the biggest difference to our lives.

Why not turn off the television set tonight and read an inspiring book?

Why not take a quiet moment to sit down and write down what you want to do with the rest of your life?

Why not spend some time with your kids rather than with the guys at the bar?

Why not take a few minutes to read the Quran today?

Don't Quit

 “Don’t Quit” and remember that:

Success is failure turned inside out, The silver tint of the clouds of doubt, And you can never tell how close you are, It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit, It's when things seem worst That you must not quit.

Role of Parents in fact

Role of Parents in fact

The sole role of a parent's most important is love and memelihra children, and to build in them a feeling of self-esteem and high self-confidence. If you are raising a child with a feeling very pleased with himself, if you raise them with full passion to go out and conquer the world, then you have fulfilled responsibilities in the highest sense. Conversely, if you give a child everything earthly value but raised in a state of lack of confidence and self-esteem, you failed in your primary role.

VALUE SELF EDUCATION

- VALUE SELF EDUCATION 

The bottom line is that you determine how and what you learn and how quickly you learn. Self-education is important beyond the classroom. In the real world of education themselves things far more than formal education. 

There are a lot of people with formal education are still struggling. Isaac Asimovfully supports this by saying that "Self - education, I believe, the only kind of education there is." A formal education is good, but only as a foundation. The sad thing is that many get stuck on a basic level. They do not realize that in order to finish the building they need to invest in some self education.

Therefore, do not be like them, who are called by James Allen as "want to improve their own lives, but do not want to improve themselves. They therefore remain bound." Dreamers realize that there is no better way to improve your life rather than to improve your mind. The biggest room in the world is the room for improvement.

Knowledge, then, is a strong asset, and one that you should always strive to improve and build up in the pursuit of your dreams. Proverbs states that "through wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established: And by knowledge of booths filled with all precious and pleasant riches."

Settle it in your mind

 Settle it in your mind 

Analysing all the occasions when I even have experienced outstanding results in any endeavour the something you need that stands out is there was a certainty of success.

 
Remember this is a certainty that's totally oblivious to actually failure. Remember this is a certainty that is aware of that difficulties and setbacks might come back, however the final word finish is victory and nothing else. 

Remember this is a certainty that puts the mind at ease. it is still, small, however clear voice in the mind that says “everything will just be okay. 

” It's virtually as if god himself is speaking to actually you and telling you to actually “have religion. ” 

William Lyon phelps aforesaid :

“If you develop the absolute sense of certainty that powerful beliefs give, you then will purchase to actually accomplish just about something, together with those items that other players are sure are not possible. ” 

ANYTHINK HAVE PURPOSE IN LIFE

- ANYTHINK HAVE PURPOSE IN LIFE

Everything has a purpose in life. Trees, ants, bees, birds and every living thing has a purpose to be. Each playing a small role in life as a refined architecture. Every good invention or tool that will either answer the question. Technology to answer the question of why - this is the answer to one's problems.Man, whatever you believe to be the origin of what they desire, is the largest of all the wonders of nature. Why do most of them in the end feel without purpose in their existence? Sages ask: "Everything, horses, vines, created for some duty ... For what task, then, that you created?"A large number of our existence just to exist. We live from year to year, as if life itself is our ultimate goal. If we get enough money and have enough to get it the way we would be content to face next year. Of course, is there a better life than we have? How can something so potentially miraculous and blessed while you just being here alone? What is your contribution to the world? Whether you are here to make a difference over the other?