NOT ENOUGH LOVE

Not enough love

THERE ARE TWO MAIN REASON ENOUGH FOR FAILURE TO PARENT - CHILD LOVES HIS SON .
First , parents do not love themselves . Parents with low self-esteem had great difficulty in giving more love to their children than they feel for themselves .
The second reason , is because they often have a misconception that their children there to meet their expectations . One of the main causes of conflict between parent and child is feeling or perception of parents that children failed to " fulfill the measure " which would be expected to parents about what they are or what they should do .
Many parents regard their children as capital , as a form of property rights . They feel that their children behave properly only if they do and say what is in accordance with their wishes .
If the child's behavior different from the expectations of parents , mother or father respond to criticism without planning to do so , they attract love and approval from their child who stepped on the child's emotional lifeline .
Children feel unloved and laid the foundation for later personality problems in later life . All negative or antisocial behaviors are cries for help , an attempt to escape from guilt , anger and resentment that began with criticism in the early days of his life .