Self-evaluation by means of SELF-DISCLOSURE

Self-evaluation by means of SELF-DISCLOSURE

Self disclosure: let others know what you think about, perceived, or desired by us; This is the most excellent way and direct, though not the only way that can be used to make others to know him.

Often we are less confident to express themselves to the people who are important to us, because we usually assume there will be a certain reactions, although not necessarily a certainty about it there is on us.

This is why, why people do not readily willing to express themselves.

Self disclosure marks a healthy soul and at the same time is the way to achieve mental health. People who want to display the actual self certainly willing, even wanted to express himself, this required a "courage to show the authenticity of self".

"Only when I'm showing myself and actually behave as my true self, then there is a possibility for my true self to thrive".

"A person will flourish because individuals are becoming" himself ".

The development of one's self will cease when the person is detained or curb themselves, hence why we sometimes found "a child" in the body of an adult, more commonly known by the term: infantile or childish.

Pressures can interfere with mental health.

Someone who can not conform to situation/right is a person who does not let other people know her and therefore, on such person also no self-introduction and incapable of showing her authenticity, even he is trying hard to not known to others.

Efforts to make himself unknown people, makes a person suffering from pressure that may be invisible and not immediately known because the people assume the false appearance of the with present themselves to the outside world.

The greater the difference himself will be shown to others, when the others were considered as a danger for him. When the presses (repress) something, then that person not only distanced it from the consciousness of himself, but he's also distancing from others.

Just by way of expressing yourself, people will be able to escape from the circumstances.

Self-disclosure is one way that can be followed to make the true self, it is necessary for the health of the soul. People are showing authenticity itself is not necessarily a "fun", just maybe he will become a more gratifying when it is precisely not showing originality itself.

But he will not be able to evolve towards a more mature, if he does not know his real self. Self disclosure would be easier done in an atmosphere where there is an attitude to accept, appreciate and reaction that does not punish.