Self-evaluation by way of direct and indirect of feedback.

Self-evaluation by way of  direct and indirect of feedback.

Indirect feedback

Indirect feedback ; does not allow a clear interpretation. It often happens that there are certain things in others that we can not accept or justify, but after finding out why the person is so or had the opportunity to give an explanation to us, then our perceptions of him will change, which often happens is that the feedback we receive it gives us information about the giver's own feedback. Because it is so vague that indirect feedback, not so useful for those who receive it can even return for damage purposes of self-evaluation.

People who receive such returns must draw conclusions from the clues are less obvious without having the opportunity to explore further, so he can not know the true meaning or underlying reasons.

Indirect feedback, though not of much use but still plays an important role determining identity. Responses of others to our behavior is often also non-verbal nature, may contain information that is not possible they express more directly. But it was not enough for some people, they prefer to receive frankly feedback.

Direct feedback.

Direct feedback is much more useful for self-evaluation, but the feedback can also be useless if it is not a judgment or an honest reaction.

One of the reasons why there is no honesty, in this case lies in the imperatives of manners in which the association does not justify someone openly criticize others. As a result, among others, is that we do not believe anyone else will be honest with us, so it was a little difficult to be assured when others express aspects of ourselves are negative.

With the eastern manners in public life in general, which is often reflected as a ban, then the feedback is negative (usually a criticism) is often accompanied by strong emotions on the part of the recipient. Many people are just going to openly criticize others, when he was in a state of anger. As a result, we become accustomed to is defensive or reply, in response to the threat that we associate with criticism. Because we are emotional in welcoming criticism that we tend to respond to it as a rejection of all of us and see the criticism as something that should we deny in any way.